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Shereé “RJ” Noel Estrella-Wong, aged 41, of Costa Mesa CA joined the stars after a long, treacherous battle with liver cirrhosis on June 9, 2026 at Hoag Memorial Hospital in Newport Beach, CA. Born January 6, 1985, in LA, she was the daughter of Lori Dube Tolentino and Randall Paul Estrella.
Shereé graduated from Estancia High School in 2003, earning the Magna Cum Laude title. After her graduation, she went on to become a model in her youth, a mother at 23, a baker/caterer, then jeweler, and wife at 37 to her first and only husband.
She was a dedicated mother, spending several years of her daughter’s childhood volunteering as the head of her school's PTA, running book fairs, assisting in classrooms, and participating in most school events; and worked tirelessly to aid and remedy her child’s chronic illness.
As a wife, she adjusted her sleep schedule to wake up early and cook Hawaiian, Mexican, and Chinese meals she’d learned to accommodate her husband’s culture for his work lunches - and she would regularly cook for his colleagues, earning massive respect and appreciation among them.
As a friend, she was the life of many parties, helped when she could, and was known to be crass, opinionated, and massively caring.
She was known to be a fierce woman, standing strongly behind her feminist morals and ideas. Among the main things she enjoyed were food, rock music, hiking, geology and paleontology, nature, creating various forms of art, movies - mainly comedy, sci-fi, and horror, exploring different cultures, racing + off roading, and much else.
She is survived by husband Matthew Keoni Wong-Estrella, daughter Taylor Mae Estrella, Father Randall Paul Estrella, Mother Lori Dube Tolentino
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